Football Sunday

I love Football Sunday! Yes, I admit, I'm a girly girl who loves football! I love all things fashion. I love shoes, dresses, make-up, and all things pink. But on Sunday afternoon you can find me in front of our 61" television watching my San Diego Chargers playing.


I know I'm not the only one, thanks to Twitter I can connect with other women who love the game just as much as I do. So if you also love the game, check out "Get Your Own Damn Beer" written by Holly Robinson Peete. She loves the game just as much as I do, maybe more! She is down to earth, funny, and she loves her family.
Well it's time for me to finish my game...26-3, Chargers are winning against the Broncos! Go Bolts! AFC West Division Leaders!

Checking in....

I know I've been MIA these last few weeks.  But it was for good reason.  Well maybe not, I have access from so many devices, it actually makes no sense that I don't keep up with everyone.  Forgive me? 

I can't believe it is already Thursday?!  Half of the month is already behind us.  Which means I am about six weeks away from our family get-away to Las Vegas for New Years Eve!  I am so excited!  I admit, I have been on a shopping frenzy buying cute and comfortable winter clothes for the boys and myself.  I have opted for two staples; leggings and skinny jeans.  I also bought a fabulous pair of INC boots from Macy's.  They are delish!  And I also bought a cute pair of wedge boots to wear on my more casual days.

I've also bought the boys some cute outfits for the cold weather.  Although I don't want to live in cold temps, it's too much fun to shop for cold weather. :)

On a Mommy note, I am actively potty training my two year old. *sigh* It's only been a few days, and he has learned the concept of "tell Mommy when I have to go" but if only he'd actually go in the toilet! LoL!  Who knew the little boy that doesn't seem afraid of anything else, is afraid to tinkle in the toilet. Go figure!

Other than that, all is well in our household.  I have a lot of new ventures I am going into.  I feel like 2010 is going to be the year of EVERYTHING!!!

Okay, well it's time to feed the kids, give them their bath, and bed!  That will be the highlight of my night! I think I'll relax and watch The Real Housewives of Orange County and have a drink.

Until Later,

~Jacqueline~

Busy days ahead...

Helllooooo!!!!

I feel like I am on the slippery slope of no more free time!  But who needs it when you are chasing your dreams?!  Well that's my philosophy.  This past Tuesday I made the final decision to return to school to obtain a degree in Business Management.  I've decided to go to the University of Phoenix.  I know they are pricey and not ideal for everyone.  But I do like their curriculum, online class platform, and the all around environment.  So along with chasing my kids around, blogging, being a temporary single Mom, and now a student...I'm not exactly sure I'm the right woman for the job?!  No, you know what; I am the EXACT woman for this job.  This is my journey and I plan to take all my opportunities and run away with them!

Surprisingly, I'm super excited to start school.  I keep thinking of my long term goals and what I can learn now to help me in the future.  So I'm going to forego thinking about all the sleep I will miss out on, how hectic my house will become, and how I may have to miss out fun nights out.  But to me it's all worth the sacrifice!

I've also made the decision to send my two year old son to daycare. *Gasp* I know, I know..I'm supposed to be going through this whole SAHM job; but it's time to take SAHM career to the next level!  He's going to attend two days a week.  That will give me time to complete my homework and study.  I will also be able to run errands with just one little guy, instead of two!  In a few months, I'm going to entertain the idea of sending my then six month old to childcare a few days a week as well. *sad face*

Well thanks for listening. As you can probably guess; I don't have much free time...hahaha!  And as always I have at least ten other items on my to-do list for the day.

Take care!

~Jacqueline~

I think I've finally found my groove!

I actually can't believe the weekend has come and gone. This week went by so fast I didn't have time to catch up! Monday's are always interesting for me and the kids. We are usually exhausted from the weekend and Monday we can find some time to relax. But it's also a time for any business that came about over the weekend needs to be taken care of. But that's all I remember?! Next thing I know I'm in the middle of Sunday!


However, I did learn a few things this week. I learned that my 2 year old son is extremely SMART!!! Yes, I know this is standard Mommy talk. But he really surprised me this week. We choose a subject every week for him to learn from and try new things. This includes words, games, and foods. This week we were learning about foods. I bought a three new Sesame Street books that focused on foods and matching items. The very first time we read the first book he could identify or say all of the foods!!! I guess I have been teaching him something over the last few years! Needless to say I was beyond stoked about that!

We also implemented a new weekday schedule. I have read many times over, that schedule is the key to success with children. I'm not opposed to it, but it seems like I was behind the schedule ALL DAY! I think I will use it as a blueprint for the day, but with two young children; I find it stressful to stay on an exact time schedule. We've also added a three time a week park visit in the schedule. It was actually quite fun. We usually spend time in the backyard, but the park allows us to be around our peers. This is a total plus! We also did not have a meltdown about leaving the park!  This is also a huge deal in my book!

So here is to another week ahead.  To good children, completed workouts, no tantrums, conversations with Dad, and no drama at all!!!

Until Later,
~Jacqueline~

Weekend Update...

It's my favorite part of the week, the weekend!  Not that I am "off of work", because we all know a Moms work is NEVER done.  So although I don't get to sleep in, I'm not off of work, and my kids don't give me any kind of break; I still enjoy it!  The weekends are care-free and not as stressful for some reason.  I also credit the fact that all of my friends and family are also off on weekends, so we can hang out or talk on the phone.  So, right now as I lay hang out on my couch watching football, and typing to you....I am relishing in the fact that it's the weekend baby!

Which SUV, that is the question?!

So the time has come for me to purchase a new car.  Well okay, I don't need a new car. But I have had my current car, a Toyota Camry, for six years!!!  I can't believe it has been that long.  It is paid for,  which is a HUGE plus, but it has over 100K miles and I'm ready to let it go.  So I have been researching mostly crossover SUV's.  I only have two small children, so space isn't a huge issue for just four of us.  I need room to fit two adults and two children comfortably.  But I'm not ready for a full size SUV.  Well I take that back; I would buy an Escalade, Yukon Denali, or Tahoe LTZ, but those aren't in my price range. :)  So I am searching for a mid-size crossover SUV that fits my budget, needs, and wants.  Suprisingly, I found  five that fit the bill!  I have since e-mailed my selections to my SO (significant other) now let's see what he has to say! LoL!  I think he will be pleasantly surprised that ALL  my choices (pre-owned) are within or UNDER the budget!!!  Now that's a shocker!  But we're not making any purchases until next April when he returns from deployment.  Oh, I almost forgot....here are the vehicles that I am interested in, let me know what you think or any first hand experience you've had with any.

2010 Chevy Traverse

MSRP $39,260

2010 Chevy Equinox

MSRP $32,230

2009 Saturn Outlook

MSRP $36,720

2010 GMC Acadia

MSRP $43,860

2010 Land Rover LR2

MSRP $41,425

Note:  All of the prices are based upon the trim levels and options I am interested in; which include, but are not limited to: navigation, rear headrest entertainment, and leather seating.  These are also the prices of these vehicles brand new.  I think after looking at all the prices, I will check out the certified pre-owned versions of all of these vehicles.  :)))

Until Later,

~Jacqueline~

Mommy Overload!

I'm 29 years old, I am a Mother, A Daughter, and a Sister.  But if someone were to really ask me "Who are you?"  I'm not quite sure I would be able to give them an accurate answer?  This is my last year in the 20's.....the last year that I should be finding myself and what I'm all about, right?  I feel like my interests are scattered all over the map.  I am interested in Real Estate, Accounting, Web Design, and most recently Blogging.   So how do I find the time to pursue all of my interests?  I don't want to take away from raising my children, but at the same time I want to find my niche in life.  Is that selfish of me to want to pursue a life outside from just being a Mom?  I don't think so at all!  I actually feel it's the best way to bring the best of both to your children.  Mommy is being fulfilled by what drives her in life, and your children reap the benefits of a happy Mommy!  It's a win, win situation in my book!

Thanks for listening!

Until Later,
~Jacqueline~

Girls Night Out better known as "GNO"....

It's been three weeks since my spouse has gone on deployment.  Three weeks for me to realize that I need to get out!!!  So I've enlisted all of my girlfriends (family and friends) for a GNO!  I figure it's a great way to fellowship with one another.  A lot of times we as women don't take time to nurture relationships with other women.  I think it's important.  So I challenge you to get your friends and families together!  Let's try to get monthly GNO!!!

Until Later
 ~Jacqueline~

Ahhhhh!!!!

It's 10:30pm on a Friday night, and the three of us are still alive! I'm drained, exhausted, tired, drained, exhausted...you get the picture! Today was a rough day. Okay, we're all Moms here, today was miserable!!! I have two boys ages 2 years old and 3 months old. Yep, I know...that explains it all! Lol! I mean they didn't do anything out of the ordinary. It just seems they were both on energy level 10 and I wasn't even on the radar! It all started with the Target trip. It began well enough; but somewhere between the household essentials and the children department it all went to h-e-double hockey sticks! My two year old who I'll refer to as, Big J, had a meltdown because I wouldn't let him open his new cup. Then we walked by the toys and my 3 month old, Lil' J, wakes up. Next Big J starts to cry over a dinosaur. And can you imagine it didn't get any better! I finally make it to the register, long gone my days of perusing all Target aisles. Now Big J has stopped crying, but he has started to whine about the cup again. And Lil' J is in the beginning stages of a cry. Just when I think, this couldn't possibly get any worse, cute guy gets behind me at the register. Nope, Im not single ,and I'm definitely not looking. But the look I received from him wasn't the "she's hot" look I used to receive just two short years ago. Nope,it was more of a "I'm never having kids" look.

Now here I am hours later...both kids are asleep and I'm enjoying a glass of wine. Even after all the drama my kids gave me today, I wouldn't trade these experiences for anything in the world. Well maybe a vacation; I promise I'd come back home. :).

*cheers* to a better day tomorrow!

Until Later,
Jacqueline


~Haute Mama~

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Favorite Fall Finds...

Well here I am, jumping in on fall fashion. I've never been a fan of jackets, sweaters, or long sleeves. I always feel so constricted! However, I've been shopping; and there are quite a few nice things out there these days. :)



Macy's has an awesome selection of sweater dresses, cardigans, and tunics. Which are *wait for it* all starting to look super cute to me! Paired with some leggings, skinny-boyfriend-straight leg jean, or with a dress or skirt. It all looks amazing! There are also a lot of versatile styles; for work, play, or casual dress. Which these days casual is the category I fall under. I need to be comfortable to chase my kids around, yet I still want to be a Haute Mama!

Here are two cardigans that I really like. On the top is BCBG (retails for $158) on the bottom is INC (retails for $79)

UGG has also reeled me over to their site (retails for $160). The Classic Argyle Knit boot is perfect fit to my lifestyle.

These are my favorite from Ugg.

Also, I can't believe I am going to say this, but I am also checking out leggings. I have not been interested in any of the skinny jean/legging trends until I bought a pair of DKNY skinny jeans from Macy's. I am not the skinniest woman around; i.e.: I have a J.Lo derriere...LoL! And these jeans make me feel like a size 4!

So, I will try a pair of leggings from Express.



These are a pair of denim leggings (retail for $49.50). They also have spandex, sequin, and sexy sleek black pair.

So those are a few of the pieces that I am interested in. I know that a lot of Moms won't take/or have the money to spend on themselves. But, you can always improvise all those pieces at discount stores. I am also an Haute Mama on a budget. Stores like Ross, Marshall's, TJ Maxx, Forever 21, and even Target keep up with the latest trends for discounted prices.

So here's to you fall *cheers*! I think I just might like this season from now on! ;)

Until Later,
~Jacqueline~

Fall Is Upon Us...

Well the time has come that every Californian dreads...a change in the weather. Although I spent the last three years in Texas, I am still not happy about weather. So now that temperatures have dropped, so have my spirits! Not only do I mourn the cold temps, I mourn the cute summer clothes and open toed shoes. :((( It's no secret that I am no fan of fall/winter clothes. They are restricting and in my opinion quite boring. But I am making an attempt to change my own mind and try out a few of these styles. *sigh* Wish me luck!

Friday Night

So this is my new Friday night? 1am and I've got my two sons taking over my bed. I'm entirely too sleepy to try to move them. And, it's actually enough room for the three of us.

Tomorrow we don't have much planned. The weekends are especially tough. The weekends serve as family time, and since we are missing a link of our family, it's just not the same. :(

Okay it's time for me to head in for the night.

~Jacqueline~


~Haute Mama~

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Trying New Things...

As you may know, a few weeks ago my spouse left on deployment. With that being said, the Navy has wonderful groups that support the family year around. As you can imagine, when it’s time for deployment those groups really come together. So after five years of being a part of the Navy, I am finally going to participate. Well I take that back, we lived in Houston for three years, and I attended many Navy events. I still miss the friends that I made from that time; who were all military affiliated. However, we all had the same story. Let me explain.

I am from a military town, so I am familiar with military families. From those experiences or from what I’ve seen, I NEVER wanted to be a part of that life. The military wife has a bad stereotype in my book. They are labeled as boring stay at home Moms. I don’t want to be under that label. Although I am a stay at home Mom, by no means am I boring! I love fashion, shoes, make-up, my kids, and of course my Navy man! But under that label; military wives don’t care about fashion, shoes, and make-up. All they care about is their children and their husbands. They won’t take time out for themselves to do things other than for their kids or husband. Which is great and of course that is always first priority. But there is a fine balance. You don’t want to lose yourself in only being the caregiver.

So tonight I’m attending a family game night. I hope to meet other women like me. We love our spouses, we are very proud! But it doesn’t DEFINE us! I am hoping I can meet ladies who love to read Glamour and InStyle magazines. I am hoping to meet ladies who do not live up to that stereotype. That’s what I’m hoping.

So ladies, if I meet you tonight and I share my blog with you, please don’t be offended. I am only writing about my own experience and what I’ve encountered. Here’s to the next few months flying by so our loved ones will return home!

~Jacqueline~

This week was supposed to be different....

This week was supposed to be different. This week was supposed to be great! Alas, none of that happened. Here it is Thursday, and I am no more relaxed than I was last Thursday. *Sigh* this week I wanted to get my kids on a schedule that worked for all three of us. I wanted our day fly by smoothly, with everything falling magically into place. And then I woke up!

All jokes aside, I wanted to start my week with a little time each day pampering myself. I think it’s important to take time out from the hectic life as “Mom” to just unwind. Yet, I can’t even take my own advice! Now don’t worry, it hasn't been from lack of trying. However, as we all know with a toddler, whom I’ll refer to as, “Big J” it’s darn near impossible to predict his mood each and every day! And don’t even get me started on “Little J”, he is 2.5 months old; I won’t call him a “bad” baby, lol…but he has left behind the sleep all day infant phase. He wants to coo, talk, play with toys, and watch his big brother run around.

So what does that mean for me??? Well that meant no time to rave about my favorite new nail color; it’s called Pink of Hearts by Opi. It’s a pale pink color and it also supports Breast Cancer Awareness month. I have it on my toesies and I just love it! I also have had no time to try my Carol’s Daughter Hair Milk. I have heard wonderful things about her entire line of products. So I bought a few to try and share with you all. And if you’re wondering, I have not received any compensation for speaking about these products…LoL! I’m just a real life product junkie and I don’t mind sharing.

Well I have another busy day ahead. Surprisingly, “Big J” and “Little J” are still sleeping! So I am taking the time to get my schedule ready for the day. I’m trying something new this evening and I’ll talk about it in a separate post. Enjoy your day!

~Jacqueline~

Whew!!!

Whew! That is all I have to say about the last few days. If my children weren't two years old and two months old, I'd be quite certain they have been trying to get rid of me!

Let me explain. As you may know, I am now the "Head Honcho" in this house. My spouse is away on deployment. And as proud of him that I am, there is also a part of me when my children are screaming I think to myself; Lucky Bastard! No, I haven't lost my mind, yet. But over the last few days I have lost complete control of my bedroom, if that's what it is anymore. My day seems to be full of putting out small fires ie: poop blow-out on Kid #2, Kid #1 sliding on printer paper across the tile floors, and Kids #1 and #2 simultaneously CRYING!

So with all that being said, I am dedicating my weekend to organizing our home and our schedule. I NEVER imagined staying home with MY OWN children every day could be so exhausting! Mind you, I'm not completely naive. But I was thinking it won't be easy, but I can do it. I'll play with them, feed, them, we'll read books, and they'll be GENIUSES!! Uh, yeah..I just want them to be alive at this point. LoL!

I also want to spend next week on ME TIME! Even though I'm a rookie at this Mommy gig. I know that I must maintain some sort of sanity for myself and my children. So next week I'll blog about my favorite products and new products I want to try and share.

Thanks for listening....Whew!!!!

~Jacqueline~

Exciting news:

I'm the proud owner of www.confessionsofahautemama.com!!!!

So now, I just need to learn to build my site and choose a hosting site.

Stay tuned!

Military Mamas

I'm so very excited to find out the the ship has a Family Readiness Group. I'll be honest, I've only met a handful of "Navy wives" and they either aren't friendly or we have nothing in common. So I'm always reluctant to get involved in these groups. However, I feel I am in a different place in my life. I'm a mother and I'm excited to meet some of the spouses at the next event.

Jacqueline

It's 11:15pm, do I know where my sanity is??? The answer quite simply, NOOOOO!!! It's been only three days with me and the kids. I can't imagine how I'm going to survive the next seven months?! I am the go to person, the CEO, the head honcho, the BOSS. I am in charge of feeding, bathing, cooking, cleaning, potty training, pacifier taking, EVERYTHING!!! I only sleep 5-7 hours a night with a few wake up calls in between. I'm starting to think I've bitten off more than I can possibly chew. Whew!!!! Now that I've gotten that off my chest.

I need to regroup! I need to get back to my haute mama self and take out time in the day to make sure that I, the head honcho, is relaxed and taken care of.

My plan of action is simple; I will take a hot shower in the morning before the children wake up. I will give myself a mini facial. I have very sensitive skin, so I'll make it simple and all natural. After that, I will take some time to myself to reflect on my agenda for the day. From there, all I need to do is execute the plan!!!

Sounds simple enough? I'll catch up tomorrow to see if I've gotten at least a little of my sanity. :)

Jacqueline

Day 1 of Deployment :(

Well it's official; I am a single Mom of two children until April 2010. We took him to the ship this morning. All around are the wives, girlfriends, husbands, and boyfriends, mothers, and fathers. All sad to say see you later to their loved ones. Some women even had to say good bye to their children and leave Dad to be the caretaker. It was sad, and I shed a tear for them, but not for myself? I know what you're thinking, but it's a simple answer. I love him dearly, but I'll be honest, he's not exactly Molly homemaker, or he isn't exactly who the kids run to when they need something. Most Moms know, if the kids need something, they will run to you. Dad can be sitting there begging to make them a sandwich or tie their shoe, but oh noooooo, "I want Mommy to do it!" So of course I will miss my best friend and movie buddy, I will miss receiving his phone calls to ask if I need anything from the store before he comes home, I will miss when he wants to hog the TV (wait no I won't miss that!), but you get the point. I will miss him terribly! This is the longest we will be apart in five years. :( But I want him to know, I can hold down the home front and we'll be here for you when you return! Thank you for sacrificing time with your family to protect Our Country and Our Freedom! We love you!!!

Can I Do It All???

This may sound like a silly question to all the single parents out there. But, I haven't been raising my children alone and quite frankly, I hope I have what it takes! I was raised in a single Mom household. My Mom can do it all! She would cook, clean, sew, work outside the house,and take care of us. All of that with too little money, family, and Prayer. So here I am, about to embark on a seven month journey with my two children while their Dad is serving Our Country. And I ask myself, Can I Do It All???

Just so I have this straight, here is my to-do list for the next seven months. I will be the sole caregiver to two children ages 2 years old and 2 months old. I will clean house, cook the food, take out the trash, change all light bulbs, water the grass, talk to the gardener, make sure cars are serviced, pay all the bills, spend quality time with my children, get my nails done, get my hair done, grocery shop, and make sure I take time out for myself every once in a while? That's impossible!!!

I'm convinced to do all of those things and still manage to be a haute mama are impossible!!! But I know so many single Moms who make it happen every day!! So my hat goes off to all of you, especially my Mother. Because growing up watching you, I know I will make it through this journey all in one piece and still as haute as ever!

Until Later,
~Jacqueline~

A New Day.....

Today was supposed to be D-Day, ie: the day Dad leaves for a 7 month deployment. Yet somehow, we were granted an extra week. Although someone will be getting their a** chewed out. My honey gets to stay home with us!!! So sorry to the guy who probably had his a** handed to him. Thanks for that sacrifice for all us families who will savor this extra week with our loved ones.

With that being said, this week I want to focus on Family Time. I have made a meal plan to cook every day next week. I even plan on making Him a carrot cake. We will spend another week hanging out at the park, going to the drive-in, Chuck E. Cheese, and we'll even take a family portrait.

Well it's time for me to get back to my family. I want to get back to my blog to help me get through this crazy life, I call mine.

Until Later
*Haute Mama*

Tough Tuesday!

So I started this blog to vent, share, and chronicle my life as a SAHM. It has been much harder to stay organized and on top of life. So finding the time to update my blog has fallen by the wayside. But I'm determined to keep it going.

I would describe my day as "Tough Tuesday". My house is a complete disaster! I feel like all I do is pick up clothes, toys, and shoes. I have done enough dishes to make me think there are an additional four people living somewhere in my house. It seems that I am cleaning the house EVERYDAY as if we had a party the day before! But the pay-off to that, is my family is happy and my two year old son has a blast throughout the day. But with all that being said, I still crave a clean house. So I have a question for you...how do you stay organized? Any tips and tricks I should try?

I found this article "100 Ways to Get Organized". They all sound promising, but the problem comes when it's time to actually implement the organization tools...LoL!

Well it is 1:19am and I not even the least bit tired! Dad is feeding the baby and watching the corniest movie of all time! But it's time to get some beauty rest. Which I have been slacking on! So tomorrow I will spend some time beauty tips and ways to pamper yourself.

Until Later
*Haute Mama*

Bed time...

So it's 12:10 PST. Both of my kids are asleep, so that means I should be too....but no such luck!

I am so happy to be off of bed rest, I almost have the urge to give myself a much needed facial or drink some tea and read a book. However, I just don't think I'll be awake much longer. I have put the kids to bed, washed my face, flossed my teeth and I'm spent!

I had plans to spend time with my blog, but I'll add that to tomorrows to-do list! :)

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

I'm officially a Mommy of two!!

I have been slacking the last couple of months. But I have managed to tweet over 2000 times...LoL! I know that is no excuse, but being on bed rest was not always easy or comfortable. So I didn't spend a lot of time on my desktop or laptop. But I have news....Our second son was born!! Jaxon Alexander was born July 15, 2009 at 7 lbs 1 oz and 18 inches long. I made it to 37 weeks and he was just as perfect as I'd imagined!

So now the real fun begins....SAHM to two children, and one man who sometimes may as well be my third child, hmph!

I have been home for a total of four days and I am a lot more sore than I remember with my son. Yet I still find time to clean up after myself and others, who shsll remain nameless. So now the real challenge begins...how do I maintain a stress free, clean household, still take time for myself, and find the to nurture my relationship. In just four days, I have not touched the surface of these parts of my life. But I'm sure as soon as I get the "hang" of it, it will be time for the man to leave and serve Our Country....

Well that is my update in a nutshell...right now I am on my bed with my two year old son watching Noggin, new baby is sleeping, and honey is making dinner...ahh if all nights were this calm and peaceful...

I look forward to my journey with the "world" or "big brother" watching....

Ciao!

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

And the countdown begins....

So it's been two weeks since my last post. I'd love to say I have been super busy with this or that, but that's just not true! I've been here at home still on bed rest, doing a serious countdown until my baby boy makes his entrance into this crazy world!

I'd also love to say I have been relaxing and enjoying the free space and time. However, that is also untrue! I live in a house with two other people. A 31 year old man and a 22 month old boy...use your imagination. They are loud, messy, and sometime just downright annoying! But I love them both dearly. :)

I am currently 32 weeks pregnant and I'm hopefully just five weeks away from the birth of my second son. I'm not quite sure I can make it past that 37 week mark.

Well it's nap time in my house, so I'm going to enjoy the little bit of free time I have left before the little guy wakes up and is up and running!

Here are a few pics of what we've been up to the last few weeks...Enjoy!

Until Later

~Haute Mama~

June Gloom..

Good Afternoon!

Well it's June 1, 2009! My goodness how time flies when you're on bed rest :0.

This week is a tough one for me. For the first time in almost five years of being together, my significant other is going out to sea ( a Navy term) for three days. :( They go just off the coast and test the ship, I guess, before their big six month deployment later on this year. I won't complain too much. He always supports me and our family so I will do the same. I will act as if I can manage on my own. I will not mention I don't like to take the trash out, that's his job! And I won't mention, who else am I going to talk to if he's not around? Nope I'll play cool and help him pack his bag and tell him all the fun things me and the little one will do while he's away, and I'll sulk tomorrow when he's gone. But who knows? Maybe we'll be just fine....

Ahh on a Mommy note....My son is now almost 22 months old! My goodness I remember when we brought him home! But now is the time to start potty training and taking away his beloved pacifier BEFORE the new baby comes! I'm not going to set my expectations too high. But I do want to introduce him to both concepts...Wish me luck!

Now let me enjoy the last hour of nap time...

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

Bedrest days....

So I've been on bed rest for just about a month now! Whew, and it looks like I have at least another two months ahead of me! But thankfully, modern technology and the old school has kept me entertained. Here are a few websites that keep me busy:

www.keepemcookin.com
A site catering to women on bed rest.

www.twitter.com
Social networking at it's best! It's like a giant chat room. :)

www.typeamom.com
Site catered to us Mommies! They also have opportunities to make money writing articles for their site.

Also I have read a few books, but of course they are all in the living room on a shelf...heehee! But I'm all caught up on my chick lit. :) And last, but not least my magaizines: Glamour, InStyle, Parenting, Cosmo, and Baby Talk.

And the most entertaining of them all.....my son, Jaden! Who at 21 months old has learned a plethora of new skills. Bring Mommy her cell phone charger, bring Mommy a book to read to you, he can answer the phone and make calls (but that isn't recommened because he calls whomever you DON'T want to speak to), and he has almost mastered brushing his teeth without me having to go over them!

I am also thankful to my family for all of their help and support! I couldn't make it this far without you all!

Love Always,
~Haute Mama still on bed rest~

Good Morning!

I have been watching the news this morning and as a mother, the story about the Minnesota woman that has fled with her son with cancer stood out. How does everyone feel about this? His cancer is 90% curable with chemo. However, their religious beliefs keep them from taking the treatment. I respect each individuals religious beliefs, but at what point do you do what's best to save your childs life? Now I understand, as a family member to child with cancer, that chemo is horrible. But that child who had cancer at 18 months old is now 14 years old in complete remission.

I'm not the one to judge, and I definitely don't went the government telling me what to do with my children. It just seems when it is a matter of life and death someone should step in like they have.

But these are solely based on my thoughts and opinions...

Until Later
*Haute Mama*

I've just been thinking....

Good Afternoon!!!

Well there is still not much going on in my world. Bed rest can really show you how cool you are, or not! But I think I'm somewhere in between :).

Last week was a doctor free week, whew! I'm so afraid of going back in on Friday and hearing I need to stay in the hospital, that so not in my plans! But enough of that, let's move on to haute mama business!

This week it was time for a visit to the spa for my mani/pedi. I didn't sneak out this time, I think I'll wait until after I hear what my doctor has to say. But you know me, I still must maintain my girlish ways. So I decided to give my hair a deep condition, shave my legs (which BTW, makes you feel super sexy if you don't otherwise), and gave myself a facial. All of these things combined help me continue on my bed rest and not feel like a slump!

To deep condition my hair I used Paul Mitchell leave in conditioner. I'll admit for the money I spent....Pantene Relaxed and Natural does a better job in making my hair feel soft.

For my legs I used my new Venus razor, which is a good buy and definitely gets the job done! My legs are uber soft and great for touching!

Then for my facial I just used Dove gentle exfoliating bar (since I haven't been wearing any make-up my skin is pretty clear of impurities), then used Neutrogena toner and lastly, my Kiehl's moisturizer.

So I'm feeling like myself again. :) Here is to a Blessed and Productive week...Enjoy!!!

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

Good morning! I am still on bed rest. Thank goodness for the Internet, cable, books, and magazines! I'm sure I couldn't survive all these weeks in bed.

Yesterday was Mother's Day...did you enjoy it and did your family pamper you for at least the day? My family did better on Saturday...made me a fantastic breakfast, cleaned house, and we snuck off of bed rest to see Star Trek. However, on Sunday, I think they used all their energy the day before. :). Now don't get me wrong, they weren't counter productive. I just didn't get the same attention and energy. Ahhh well!

Well I am going to watch some Noggin with my little one! I'll be back a little later with some of the sights and sounds that are keeping me busy throughout the day.

Ciao!
*Haute Mama*

Haute Mama, the product junkie!

In my last post I focused on saving for you and your family. But now to the good stuff! As a self-proclaimed Haute Mama, I am also a known product junkie! I love to indulge myself in products that make me feel beautiful and most importantly, take me away with time to myself even if it is just in my own bathroom. :)

I'm not sure if most of you know right now I am on bed rest at 26 weeks pregnant. So my ME time has been cut short, but I can savor the few moments I can be out of bed when it's time to shower. So I have put together a few products that even for just a moment, make me feel like I am on my own private spa day.

First on the list is the Aromatherapy line at Bath & Body Works. I am in love with the Lavender and Vanilla fragrance right now, it relaxes me and makes me smell soooo good! After my shower I use my Aveeno skin face wash (I have sensitive skin and this is wonderful) and next is my Kiehl's Tea Tree toner and an oil free moisturizer. Next I like to use thick creams on my body it seems to make my skin feel so soft even hours after I apply. I have a few different lotions in rotation; Johnson's Baby Lotion, Curel, Aveeno, and Nivea to name a few. But they all give me the soft feel that I and my honey love so much! :) And last but not least, we MUST take care of our footsies! I learned years ago from my Mom to put lotion on your feet and then put on a pair of nice cotton socks at night and your feet will stay soft and won't become victim to the dead skin...Yikes!

Well that is my routine in a nutshell....and thankfully I am still able to keep this up even on bed rest. It's probably more important now, being stuck in bed, then it has ever been to stay on top of my spa routine!

Well it's now time to do some stretching and then I'm off to a doc appointment!

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

Haute Mama Shopping Tips!

Well as we all know this economy is in a downward spiral! Which has most of us tightening up our expenses and really evaluating the way we spend our money. As a SAHM, I am no exception. Yes I like to be haute with all the latest and greatest products, but not at the expense of my families financial well-being. With that being said, I would like to share two websites that I have learned about in my short time as a SAHM (Stay At Home Mom).

1. www.thegrocerygame.com
This website is wonderful if you feel like you can put in the time and effort to clip coupons and save money! I was definitely not a coupon-clipper, however, in the past two years I have saved TONS in the grocery store. My biggest saving spree was a savings of over $75!!! I couldn't believe it, but it works. The downside there is a small fee to receive the list, but in my opinion it was totally worth it!

2. www.couponmom.com
This site is similar to the previous, but it's free. Which is a plus! She has links to printable coupons, restaurant coupons, and a free e-book called "Cut Your Grocery Bill in Half". I will be honest I haven't really jumped into this website much as of yet. But I receive valuable info via e-mail that hasn't made me un-subscribe from the mailing list. :)

Well that's all I have inthe savings department for now. I hope this helps and inspires you to find ways to save money in your own family.

Until Later
~Haute Mama~

Welcome to Wonderful Wednesday! Although, I am confined to my super comfy bed, wrapped up in my luxurious sheets and down comforter doesn't mean I can't be haute, right?

Today I am going to focus on feeling wonderful. For me that comes from the inside out. So I will have some good fruits and veggies to eat, take a hot shower with my lavendar scrub, moisturize my skin with some Kiehl's, and give myself a manicure! After all that I can't help but feel fabulous! And a little secret...I MUST get my eyebrows done, so this afternoon my honey will drive me and let me out of the bed just for a minute...shhhh don't tell my doc, but they must be done!

Okay, I need to do some leg exercises and stretch a little bit. I'll be back tomorrow with some haute mama buys.

Until Later,
*Haute Mama*

So I have been getting requests to update my blog...LOL! Sorry..:)

Well I am on day two of bedrest at home. I'm just so thankful to be out of the hospital! Thank you for all the Prayers!!!

9pm on a Saturday night....and I'm hanging out in the hospital. My family just left and that is the hardest part. :(

I'm thinking tonight I'm going to start reading "Shoe Addicts Anonymous" by Beth Harbison. I'm just hoping that won't ignite this feeling I'm having of shopping online. :)

I'm dying over how boring these posts are. But when I get out of this place. I'll be ready to go!

Until Later
*Haute Mama*

I'm not a fan of my new nurse....and I'm stuck with her until 7pm, ugh!

Good Morning!

I am still here in the hospital. It hasn't been all bad, but there truly is no place like HOME!

Right now I am hanging out in the hospital bed, yet staying true to my haute mama status. :). Which means no hospital gown...I have my own pj's from Victoria's Secret, hair in a roll out of bed ponytail,Burt's Bees lip gloss, and I am wearing my fav body spray from Bath & Body Works.

Just want to keep everyone posted....chat with ya later!

*Haute Mama*

I really needed to get that off my chest thanks for listening. :)

So obviously I haven't been up to anything major. But I did get into a twitter fight with Perez Hilton this week. Does that count?? LOL! I'm over it now, I just didn't appreciate his crass judgement of Miss California.

I also would like to add pictures and links of haute items for all my haute mamas! So stay tuned! I'm new to this!

Until Later
*Haute Mama*

It's Thursday night 11:08pm. I am a patient in the hospital. The same hospital our daughter passed away 3.5 years ago, whoo! This is a major emotional moment. It's an emotional ride being here. No worries I'm not depressed anymore, but I am sad for our loss and I am sad about the piece missing from my heart. We will always love you Aja Nicole...RIP. Love, Mommy <3.

Until We Meet Again.....

So I have been MIA for the last week. Ok trying to get a handle on this whole Mama thing. :). I will be back this afternoon to spread some Thursday cheer! Right now I'm at my doctors office waiting to find out if I'll need a cerclage...yikes!!! Hmmm, just heard the doc say my name...be back!

Good morning! Let me try posting from my phone...this should be interesting :).

Congrats to Ashton Kutcher for reaching 1 million followers on twitter! www.malarianomore.org

Busy week!!!

My goodness! This is the first time in the last few days that I have been able to just sit down and unwind! So much for my nightly routine. :/

In the last month my family has moved from Texas to California. That brings tremendous change in one's life, let me tell you! Finding a place to live, new doctors, new services, moving day, and just all new surroundings in general. Well I have been in transition for the last month! And this week seemed to incorporate a little of everything. So I have been spending countless quality time in the car. :) Needless to say my house has suffered because of it. So I spent this afternoon in full on cleaning mode with my 20 month old son in tow. Boy, that kid really isn't one for helping me clean! It seems like everything thing I did, he un-did (yes, I just made up a new word :D)

Then it dawned on me that in about four months I will have another set of feet on my heels, or on my hip! Somehow this is not translating into my Haute Mama dreams?? So what is a girl to do? Well this weekend is dedicated to ME!!!! I will get my mani and pedi, my eyebrows tended to, I will buy some new product (I'm a product junkie! I love everything for hair, skin, nails you name it!) and I will tend to my hair! Then next week I can come back better than ever! Refreshed and haute like I should be!

Also stay tuned next week I plan on adding some pictures with my posts. My son, Jaden is truly a hilarious and remarkable child and I must show him off! I've also added an application to my Iphone so I can blog when I'm on the road...yippeee!!

Well let me enjoy a little ME time while the little one is asleep and Dad is preoccupied with the television.

Until Later,
~Haute Mama~

Happy Easter!

It's a beautiful day here in Southern California! The sun is shining and the weather is nice. But alas, we are in the house today. My son has a fever and isn't in the mood for crowds. Although I'm not happy about him not feeling well. I welcome the break in our regular scheduled programming. :)

So I vow that today I will take a break from cleaning, vacuuming, washing, and anything other household chores! I will open all the windows, sit in the backyard and enjoy the view! I will give my son cold compresses and Motrin and Tylenol as needed! I will not spend my day over the hot stove! And most importantly, I will take some time to relax!

Enjoy your day!
~Haute Mama~

*Haute Tips*

I am Thankful for Thursday!

So with that being said I need to continue to be thankful and nurture my hauteness :). Every night when my son goes to sleep, I try to take some time to unwind alone. Just me and my thoughts of the day, how I can improve as a woman and a mother, and to just be. It means so much to be able to let go of any stresses of the day. It can also help you go into tomorrow with no anger or resentment of the day before. Try it out sometime, I'm sure you will benefit greatly!

I'm off to give myself a mini facial. I think feeling beautiful on the inside and out contributes greatly to my success as a Mom. So I will meditate for at least 15 minutes to reflect on my day, then it's on to the facial. Gotta keep it haute!

Until Later,
*Haute Mama*

Thoughts for the day...

Well Good afternoon! Today is Thankful for a Tidy Thursday. :) I've decided to give every day a name and a purpose. So hopefully I can keep my family productive and on track.

My nineteen month old son has began to sleep in his toddler bed. Which in theory, is a terrific milestone. But this morning, not so much. I woke up to a little noise. So I roll out of bed and make my way to the kitchen. Where my son is enjoying a peanut and butter sandwich from the trash! Oh joy! Note to self, this kid needs a gate in the entry of his bedroom.

Now he has converted an empty box of diapers into what I'm assuming is a car? He is now sliding through the house, which is actually quite hilarious! I would love to take a picture but of course my camera has no batteries!! I'm on a roll today and I still have a to-do list a mile long...yippee!

I'll be back a little later with I'm sure more fun stories and mayhem from our house to yours.

Until Later,
*Haute Mama*

The Beginning...

I am starting this blog because I feel like I need an outlet. An outlet to talk about the crazy things I am thinking, the crazy things my 19 month old son is doing, and just about all the crazy things life throws my way.

Today I am thinking how do I live in a clutter free, dish free, and laundry free home?? And I came to the conclusion that I would have to live without two people. Now I don't want to call any names. However, it's just myself and two males that live here, so you be the judge. I mean one is 19 months old, so he gets a pass at times. But how about the 31 year old? And this is when I begin to think how long can I survive as a SAHM? Because with that title it just screams housekeeper, cook, scheduler, driver, shopper, and just about everything in between! Is this the life of a self proclaimed Haute Mama??!! I guess I'll be the judge of that!

So for now I'm going to sign off....it's time to engage this kid in a little arts and crafts, reading, how to use a vacuum, dinner, bath and bedtime! :)

Until Later,
*Haute Mama*